5 Tricks to Assist Your Custody Case – Youngster Custody Authorized Blogs Posted by Brian E. McKinley

Going through a divorce is not an easy path. One way to make it even more complicated is when kids are involved. Most parents want the best for their children, of course, but face a conflict when they have to give up some of their precious time with their children due to divorce or custody proceedings. As a result, this can be one of the reasons for a custody battle.

We cannot stress enough that relying on an experienced divorce lawyer on a custody case is one of the most important things a parent can do to keep their children’s well-being in mind. Making sure you have the right attorney can make a huge difference in the outcome of your case. In addition to the correct display, the following tips can also be helpful:

1. Stay away from social media Parents should change their settings in their social media accounts to “private” and refrain from posting on all of these channels. In addition, information, including photos of children, should not be posted online by a parent. One parent can use what they find on the other parent’s social media channels against them during a custody case. For example, a spouse may post about a new relationship or about spending money on something they shouldn’t have. It will be beneficial to keep social channels quiet for a while.

2. Start a journal or two When parents approach a custody case, they should record their commitment to their children in a journal. Parents should also keep track of the time spent with the children, the time the other parent spent with the children, and any other case-relevant information about the children. This can be helpful during a custody case as a parent can try to provide examples of what a parent did or didn’t do during the marriage, and keeping a daily journal can help resolve these confrontations. In addition to keeping a diary describing what they are doing with their children, it may be advisable to keep a diary of their interactions with the other parent. This can include saving text messages, voicemails, and emails from the other parent. It can help if one parent can show how well they are communicating with the other parent.

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3. Look at what you are saying in front of your children Regardless of the circumstances, it is important that parents do not speak ill of the other parent in front of their children. While difficult, it can hurt the parents’ case in court and, more importantly, it can harm their children. It is okay for parents to reach out to a trusted family member, friend, or therapist, but they should refrain from venting their children. In addition, they should encourage their children to spend time with the other parent to foster the child’s relationship with the other parent. As long as the other parent does not pose a threat to the children, a healthy relationship with both parents is beneficial for the children concerned and for the case of custody.

4th Hold back on new relationships In this situation, make sure you think about new relationships and their consequences. For example, a parent’s custody case can be damaged if they move in with a new partner or get involved with someone unsuitable for dealing with the children. Parents should think about how their children are feeling as they may find it difficult to accept their parents’ separation. While it is important for parents to take care of themselves and have a healthy relationship, this is not the time to drastically change their relationship status.

5. Consider an out-of-court settlement Putting the custody process in the hands of a judge can be extremely stressful as the judge will determine the future of parents and their children. Litigation can be inevitable in many situations, but there are also many situations where an amicable solution or settlement can be reached that will result in a positive outcome for all. In addition, billing is less strenuous and cheaper.

Custody proceedings are a difficult situation for many parents who are separated or divorced. Even if you don’t want to find yourself in this situation, a custody case can be resolved amicably without extensive legal disputes, especially if you have an experienced divorce lawyer by your side.

Meet with our lawyers at Wilder Mahood McKinley & Oglesby to thoroughly discuss your situation and review your child support and custody options that will best suit you and your children. To learn more, contact us online at or call our law firm at 412-261-4040.

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